All is said James, thanks for that. True deep connection is what we all want, ain’t it? There’s still something I’m unsure about. How do we know if we got triggered by her behaviors and need to do some inner work to look into what gets triggered exactly or if her behaviors are quite disrespectful? I tend to not trust my judgement about it, out of humility (I like to think that’s the reason), not trusting my impulses too quickly and knowing so well that people never really do anything to hurt anyone (at least on the grand scheme of things). When to get your boundaries straight or walk away? Some people argue “when it does not feel right, you walk away”. I think it’s oversimplifying the case, I don’t want to walk away my whole life, I am willing to do the work, but with the right person, though, who can value my worth. Thanks 🙏